rayedictator:

i think all petals and ELF rly should rally around this idea of telling heechul to do what makes him happy. petals have this thing where they think they are better than other fans bc they tell heechul to “find a woman” and “get married” not realizing that that is just as harmful as telling him not to date for fans. so whenever anyone is able to talk to heechul we should all remind him that what’s important is his happiness and doing what makes him happy.